Sandy Ireland Life & Relationships Coaching

Are You Ready for Lasting Love?

Conscious Dating Relationship Readiness Quiz for SinglesIt’s funny, isn’t it? We often focus on what we want without thinking to ask our self if we’re ready for it. Should 13 year old kids have sex? Can we run a marathon without training? It might be a challenging idea, but because you want something doesn’t necessarily mean you’re ready for it.

Ask yourself- “Am I ready for lasting love?” It would be a tragedy to finally find your soulmate only to pass each other by like two ships in the night because you weren’t ready for the real thing.

Here’s a short, but very important 10-question confidential quiz for you.

To assess your readiness for a committed relationship rate yourself in each of the following ten areas. Try to be objective and honest with yourself. We recommend asking close friends and family members for their opinions as well.

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Relationship Readiness Quiz

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1 / 10

I know my requirements. I have a written list of at least ten non-negotiable requirements that I use for screening potential partners. I am clear that if any are missing, a relationship will not work for me.

2 / 10

I know what I want. I have a clear vision for my life and relationship. I can envision my perfect life in rich detail that feels strong, very real, and keeps me motivated.

3 / 10

I have effective relationship skills. I understand relationships, can maintain closeness and intimacy, communicate authentically and assertively, negotiate differences positively, allow myself to trust and be vulnerable, and can give and receive love without emotional barriers.

4 / 10

I have effective dating skills. I initiate contact with people I want to meet, and disengage from people who are not a match.

5 / 10

My family relationships are functional. My relationship with my children, ex—partner/spouse, siblings, parents and extended family do not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

6 / 10

My financial and legal business is handled. I have no financial or legal issues that would interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

7 / 10

I am healthy in mind, body, and spirit. My physical, mental, or emotional health does not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want. I am reasonably happy and feel good.

8 / 10

I am satisfied with my work or career. My work is fulfilling, supports my lifestyle, and does not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.

9 / 10

I am ready and available for commitment. I have no emotional or legal baggage from a previous relationship. My schedule, commitments and lifestyle allow my availability to build a new relationship.

10 / 10

I am happy and successful being single. I enjoy my life, my work, my family, my friends, and my own company. [am living the life that I want, and I am not seeking a relationship out of desperation and need.

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Schedule a 45-minute, complimentary, "Am I Ready for Lasting Love?" Session (Value $150)

During this session we will: Create a sense of clarity about the type of relationship you really want, discover the essential building blocks for finding the love of your life, and determine the #1 thing stopping you. You will then know EXACTLY what to do next to create the life that you truly want with the love of your life!

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